John Calvin on Ephesians 5:33

33. Nevertheless, let every one. Having digressed a little from this subject, though the very digression aided his design, he adopts the method usually followed in short precepts, by giving a brief summary of duties. Husbands are required to love their wives, and wives to fear (φοβὢται) their husbands, understanding by fear that reverence which will lead them to be submissive. Where reverence does not exist, there will be no willing subjection. “One peculiarity in this injunction has been usually overlooked. What is instructive on either side is not enforced, but what is necessary to direct and hallow such an instinct is inculcated. The woman loves in deep, undying sympathy; but, to teach her how this fondness should know and fill its appropriate sphere, she is commanded to obey and honor. The man, on the other hand, feels that his position is to govern; but, to shew him what should be the essence and means of his government, he is enjoined to love.” — Eadie.

CHAPTER 6

Ephesians 6:1-4

1. Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.

1. Filii, obedite parentibus vestris in Domino; hoc enim est justum.

2. Honor thy father and mother, (which is the first commandment with promise,)

2. Honora patrem tuum et matrem; (quod est mandatum primum cum promissione:)

3. That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

3. Ut bene tibi sit, et sis longaevus super terram.

4. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

4. Vos etiam, patres, ne ad iram provocetis filios vestros; sed educate eos in disciplina et correptione Domini.