Matthew Poole and continuators on 2 Corinthians 2:4

4 For out of much affliction and anguish of heart, I wrote unto you with many tears, not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you .

Every man that deriveth from God, is in this made partaker of the Divine Nature, that like as God doth not grieve willingly, nor willingly afflict the children of men, so neither will he; but if by reason of his office or trust reposed in him, he be under an obligation sometimes to speak smartly, or to chastise and punish others for their Errors, yet he will so do it, as one that hath no pleasure and delight in it. This the good Judge weepeth, or at least sheweth sorrow and compassion, when he giveth Sentence against Malefactors. So (saith this great Apostle) to whom God had committed a care over all the Christian Churches, he saw a necessity of reproving this Church that was at Corinth, for enduring the incestuous person in their Communion, and not casting him out; for their Errors about the Resurrection, for their Divisions, Schisms, and Contentions, &c. but he professeth, that he did this with many tears; and those not shed in hypocrisie, but forced from the anguish and affliction of his heart; that he had nothing less in his design, than to put them to any excessive grief or trouble, but what he wrote was out of a Principle of Love and good Will, both to the welfare of their whole Church, and to the good of the particular Souls of those that were the Members of that Church. Ministers or others do no good by their censures or reproofs, if they do not so dispense them, as people may see that what they do, or say, is out of their abundant love to their Souls.